The VIP Etiquette Guide: How to Act Right Around Bad B*itches

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Want the full fantasy? Here’s how to behave when you’re in the presence of premium entertainment.

There’s an art to the strip party experience—and it starts with knowing how to act. Whether you’re at a private bachelor party, a birthday party, or a fully nude fantasy show, how you behave around professional dancers can make or break the vibe.

This is your VIP etiquette cheat code—so you don’t fumble the bag, kill the mood, or get yourself blacklisted from ever booking again.

First of All: 

You’re a Guest, Not the Director

This isn’t a choose-your-own-porn adventure. The women you’re partying with aren’t there to “do whatever you say”—they’re highly-skilled entertainers providing a curated fantasy.

You’re stepping into her stage. And if you act right? She’ll make sure it’s unforgettable.

Tip Like a Gentleman, Not a Goof

Tips are not optional. If you’re throwing a private party with strippers and didn’t factor tipping into the budget, you’ve already failed.

Tipping etiquette 101:

• Have plenty of cash on hand (20s, 50s, and singles—mix it up)

• If it’s a VIP show, hand tips directly—don’t throw money at someone’s face

• If a dancer is on you, give her what she’s working for. Don’t watch like it’s free cable

• Private dances? Bring extra. VIPs deserve VIP pay

Pro tip: The more generous you are with your energy and your tips, the more your dancer gives back. It’s mutual motivation, baby.

Don’t Touch Without Permission

This one should go without saying—but here we are. Just because she’s dancing nude doesn’t mean you have automatic access to her body.

General touch rules:

• If it’s a no-contact show, keep your hands to yourself

• If touching is allowed, follow her lead—she’ll let you know what’s cool

• Never grab, slap, pull, or surprise a dancer with your hands (seriously, no one likes jump scares)

• Don’t be creepy—“accidental” grazing is just as bad

Consent is sexy. Being respectful will get you a better show. Acting weird? She’ll shut it down real quick.

No Sneaky Filming

Unless filming is clearly allowed (and agreed upon by the dancers), your phone stays in your pocket.

Trying to record secretly is:

• Disrespectful

• Creepy

• A fast-track to getting kicked out, blacklisted, or worse

Want a pic or clip? Ask first. If she’s down and you’re cool, she might even help you get the angle.

Don’t Get Sloppy

Yes, you can drink. No, you shouldn’t get wasted. Drunk dudes make things awkward fast.

Stay in control:

• Don’t slur, stumble, or shout in her face

• Don’t forget how to behave just because you’re on tequila round 6

• Don’t argue with your friends or try to “one-up” each other on who gets more attention

Pro dancers love to party—but not with messy energy. You don’t have to be boring. You just have to be smooth.

Engage With the Show (Don’t Just Stare)

A private dance is a performance—not a punishment. Don’t sit there stiff and silent like you’re watching a TED Talk. Give the girls something to work with!

How to interact like a pro:

• Smile

• Compliment her—“you’re killin’ it” > “do something freaky”

• Eye contact is great, but don’t give stalker energy

• Laugh, relax, enjoy the moment

The vibe you bring sets the tone for everyone else in the room. Show up cool, confident, and fun, and the energy will match you.

Don’t Get Weird with Conversation

You can talk—but don’t trauma dump, don’t ask her for her real name, and don’t turn it into a job interview.

Things not to say:

• “Do your parents know you do this?”

• “What else do you do for money?”

• “How much for more than dancing?”

• “You’re too pretty to do this.” (She’s too pretty not to.)

Instead:

• Ask about her stage name

• Compliment her outfit, moves, or vibe

• Tell her she made the party

• Respect the fantasy—don’t try to “rescue” her from a job she’s excelling at

Bonus Rule: Know the Boundaries of the Booking

Before the party starts, understand:

• What package was booked (topless, nude, girl-on-girl)

• What’s included—and what’s not

• How long the dancers are scheduled to stay

• If private dances or VIP time are available to upgrade

If you want more than what’s been booked—ask politely and be prepared to pay. But don’t push. No means no.

Respect = A Better Show

When you treat strippers like royalty, they give you a show that’s worth every dollar. You’re not just buying eye candy—you’re investing in an unmatched experience with women who know how to entertain like pros.

Want the full fantasy? Act right. Tip well. Don’t be creepy. Respect her space. And watch the night unfold.

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